
Our minds play funny tricks on us sometimes. When you recognize that happening, change it. Your mind that is, change your mind.
Below are some scary perceptions (and therefore reality in your mind’s eye). Offered are alternative realities for each.
The Popularity Contest
Perception: Everyone is watching your every move. What will the popular crowd think if I say this (or that) {or nothing!} Maybe if I retweet them, they’ll retweet me back. How can I get more followers. Why isn’t anyone “liking” or linking to me?
Alternative Reality: Think of your target audience (customers, students, congregation, etc.). While your peers and colleagues are important, they should be secondary. Primary reason you’re using these tools is to serve your customer. Here’s the formula: 1st is your target audience; 2nd is the person you’re RTing or linking to; 3rd is you. Do that and find peace.
The Overwhelm
Perception: There’s just too many tools! Do I really need another thingie to learn? And this takes too much time. I need to write a blog post. Oh! My RSS feeds are full. Stop!
Alternative Reality: Ask yourself a few questions – How will this new tool benefit my target audience? Will it help me reach my business goals? If so, how? Can I multitask and accomplish more than one thing using this? What tool/practice gets set aside if I start using this?
The Misunderstanding
Perception: They didn’t thank me for ReTweeting them! How come they didn’t comment on the post I mentioned them? They wrote about the same thing at about the same time, do you think they stole my idea?
Alternative Reality: There now, it’s okay. Again, your target audience is the main thing. Serve them. Would you have shared that article because of the value it had for your folks regardless of who wrote it? As far as new ideas, when was the last time anything was really new? Everything is a Remix these days.
The I Don’t Understand
Perception: Be aware of poking fun or hating on something (tool, practice, timing, etc). I know, Klout isn’t perfect and Google + isn’t mature and Triberr is too automatic and Facebook has privacy issues and did you see that LOL . . . deep breath:-) {I know – you hate that too, sorry}
Alternative Reality: When we poke fun or hate on something, it usually a defense mechanism. We’re adults – we should know this stuff by now. Be careful that your own proficiency doesn’t become your deficiency. Every new thing has a new learning curve. Love the learning.
Piece things together and everyone will have peace in gathering.
What other Perceptions v Alternative Realities do you find in Social Media?
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